This post is about people, who maybe I am close too or maybe not close , maybe my friends or just acquaintances or just that I ve come across someone at some point of time in my life. This post is rant on how some people who make me think in a very negative way. I am basically a very optimist person and not just optimistic very very very optimistic person (a typical Sagittarian), so u can imagine what kind of people these are who make me think in a pessimistic or negative way, but by reading this post don’t think that I often keep complaining, its just that some times people just want to annoy u and I feel that’s there main aim, or I donno whether I am supersensitive…lol. I have already written a post on this before too…. check here.
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Ok ranting starts now lol….I know this person from a very long time, long time in the sense from childhood (we are cousins), maybe I can say we were and are still friends even today. This person left for another country, she dint even have the courtesy to call me n tell that she is leaving. We have a common friend whom we know from past 7 to 8 years, she had called her, met here before leaving and before that they have gone shopping together en all. Ok for shopping and meeting maybe she dint call me coz I was in Mysore, and shopping I have no probs she would have thought I am busy, but what about meeting before leaving. She could have at least called and found out whether I was in Bangalore or in Mysore or could I make it for the meet or call a day or two before leaving.
I donno maybe I am expecting too much or maybe I did the same when I was leaving to the US, but I remember calling her n telling her that I am leaving and when I was in the airport I messaged everyone possible (including her), and a week before leaving I meet most of my close relatives and friends, for people who I could not meet coz they were not in Bangalore, I made sure that I called and spoke to them(this what I did). I am not expecting her to do the same , but for me everyone is important. For me relationships and friends are part of my life, not just part but a very important part of my life ( this depends on each person I guess, n this is how I feel).I felt very bad that she dint call me , and also she had met up with friend and dint even let me know, I got to know this after she left, that too from a third person.
One thing I wanna to tell her, maybe she felt she is going to another country and she does not need anybody other then the immediate family, maybe she ll come for 2 or 3 months for vacation and so she would have thought that there is no need of anybody other than the immediate family, its her take. So I guess I shouldn’t feel bad , actually I had totally forgotten about this incident, but until I put this in my blog I couldn’t sleep, so now I feel so unburdened after writing this sigh.
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K one more…. I know this person from few years, this person is a very nice one, but the only problem is he/she shows off, which is a total turn off for me. I just hate this attitude of people , who are constantly showing off, what I d like to say is, if as a person you have done something great then other person/people should say “oh this so n so person has done like this, he s so great n all” what the use if I do something and if I only go on n on n on telling ‘I did this great thing and I am great’, ‘I did this great thing and I am great’…..once in a while its ok , but not always. I ve written about this person here before it self, its becoming more n more every time I meet this person , another story of his/hers greatness, I just feel like saying “oh pleaseeeee stop it, enough is enough” , I feel frustrated hence I ve written again.
This is not only for this one particular person but for all the people on earth who show off, plzzzz at least not with me. It such a turn off for me.
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Ha there is soooo much about which I can rant and rant ..... but I ve forgotten few things lol... I ve written sooo much about peoples negative characters, so maybe in my future posts would like to write about the postive characters n let u people know that I am not always complaining. :)




8 Ur two Cents:
hey few people are like that... its better u dont bother too much about these ppl...
i ve gone through these n now i care a damn...
cheer up gal... don worry
hey...it's not just you...many of us come across characters like this every now and then...the best thing we can do is not get bothered and not waste time thinking about then...it's just not worth it...:-)...
@AD n VS... yeh yeh... m not worring coz i know its worth it.... but i couldnt sleep untill i blogged it... now i feel so free... lol..
oh commom yar.. just leave it... like how V....S has said... its not worth worring....
so chill madi..
ooohhh... justforget it..
dont worry about these silly things yar.
belated bday wishes.
@ preethi, div n sindhu .... its just a rant as usual...
@ sindhu... thanks for the wishes
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