Modern age/ Pre-marital s@#, Live-in Relationships/ Western Influencee

(P.S.This post was not written intentionally to hurt anybody's feelings, these are entirely my views,this post maybe candid, so those who dont want to face reality dont read it,  no offence to anybody, thanks.)

On Saturday night I was watching MTV Hero Honda Roadies 6.0, Delhi auditions program, I just love this program , I ve been watching this program from the time it started , like 6 or 5 years ago. If ur wondering what’s the that got to do with the title of the post then… there is lots to do with it lol. Actually what happened in the program triggered me to do write this post. Check out the video below.

So did u see what happened, I donno after I heard what those people where speaking. I just felt like telling my take on the ‘pre-marital sex and live- relationships’ an also about the guy who told that a gal who’s in a live-in relationship is a s#$@....

Pre-marital sex (pmas)….. I feel is purely a individual choice and I believe in a firm choice, in the sense its not like u keep changing ur views just coz ur friends or all of a suddenly u see your peers or ur seniors or anybody for it or into it, and you get influence by those people n change ur views. 

According to me pmas is a no no a big no for me, when I was doing my degree (4 to 5 years back) that’s when I got to know that, now days pmas is common but I was not surprised or something. During my masters is when I got to know that even my close friends are also for it and I was surprised and their opinion was that if u love a person it’s a way of showing how much u love them….haaaan ha I don’t think so …. (this is going too personal I guess… but..) and my close friends were shocked /surprised to know that I was against this even though me going steady with my BF for 3 years n m against it (u got it),for me that was not the only way of showing love….hmmmm Have I diverted from the topic, no I don’t think so, but this is my take on pmas.

Live-in relationships… I feel again this is purely individual choice, and again this is also a big no no to for me, no reasons here for this, but even if in any case I ever wanted to do this I don’t think so it would have worked out for me. This is my take on live-ins again no offence to anybody it’s just my take. If anyone is for it, its ur take.

Ok ok those were my opinions. Why I wrote this post is coz mainly after seeing the roadies show I was surprised by the way that guy(who was being interviewed, I guess his name was Jhon ) spoke, just coz a a gal is living-in that does not mean she is S#@$. He has no rights to talk about a gal like that, who is he to judge a gal n tell dirty things just coz she is living-in it’s so ridiculous.

When ever I used to see the auditions, I would wonder why Raghu (the judge) was so rude to people (other judge’s r ok) but when I was seeing this particular episode I was happy by the way Raghu spoke. I was feeling nice coz of the last sentence he told “what about the guy in the live-in, your society does not talk about the guy, this is your society”. 

Ha finally somebody pointed out something out of the way or something people don’t want to talk in India atleast, or I guess they don’t thing if a guy losses his virginity before wedding or whatever it does not matter n it matters only for gals in our country I guess, I hate this hypocrisy. I wonder why in our country we have such biased opinions, one rule for the gals and nothing for guys. 

This guy Jhon who was giving interview was going on telling society, society, society… ‘hello you to are a part of this society’ I felt like telling him, whatever I dint like the way he put the blame on the society or I donno whether he was confused and nervous at that point of time. Whatever I just dint like what he spoke. Whatever conversations between the three people was, but it made me think of what I think of those two taboo( taboo according to our society) topics in India and also wish I was there during the interview to just give him my two cents along with Raghu and Rajeev.