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7 Ur two Cents:
dont just bother about some people just leave them, why should u change for someone else...
if u feel ur right dont care a danm..
y should u change dear... 1st off all think whether its worth changing coz of few people who hurt you...
there are others right and that too who are close to u like ur hubby, parents, siblings, friends etc..and have accepted the way u are thats enough i feel...
why should u change for some silly people and for some silly probs...
Hope you are over it and are feeling much better as I write the comment.
Here's my take BG... (this is just my opinion, so advance apologies if this hurts (?) you in any way)
Just as you had mentioned, I think it's better off for you if you did take the time to know the person well enough before you become close rather than becoming close right off the start...It's a wiser choice. It's a positive change because it's for your own good in the long-run, isn't it? Each and every person changes their outlook all through their life as and when they learn from their past experiences. Changing your attitude towards something just means you are becoming mature as you grow, don't you think? So why resist change? Just go for it. Try to take time before becoming close to anyone...It might be hard to put it in practice, but at least you can try because it's all for your own good... :-)
Also, it's very true what you had pointed out. We go to others more when we are sad / depressed than when we are happy. Since you are the one they come to when they are sad, it means that you make a great friend. You must really be proud about that. Because you have something that many people don't - you are a great listener and talking to you makes people feel lighter. Kudos, dear. I'm sure it hurts when they stop talking / sharing when they are out of their misery, but then why expect that they should come to you when they are happy too? Don't you think it's your expectations that is disappointing you? So back to what I've mentioned above - change. Don't get too close just because someone came to share their bad times with you. They might or might not stay for long. Be the good listener that you are and be there for them. But don't expect much. If they don't stick around, they are the ones losing a good person, not you. So it's not your fault and you shouldn't be feeling bad about it at all. Be proud of what you have done for them and just move on. Don't get stuck; that leads to hurt.
Again, that's just what I think. Whatever I've said is in no way any advice to you. They are just my opinion and my suggestion. Do what you feel like. You are best judge of the situation :-).
Many many hugs. Hope you feel better.
@ray welcome to my blog...
actually to be frank m not bothered ...but once in a while ur own mind goes out of ur control..its k m fine now
@sindhu..i know..i know...but havent i made a silly prob look like a big one...
@Ersa...i know change is a part and parcel of life we need to change...and except things around us the way they are
i usually take time when i make friends..i dono what happened this time... once in a while i instantly gel with ppl and never experienced something like this so i felt a little hurt..
i also knew and know that i shldnt expect from ppl...i dono all of sudden what happened to me....but it made me feel lighter when i was reading ur 2 cents...
thanks gal i am fine
interesting blog
I second what ever ERSA has said
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